fun, sporty, flirty, intelligent, independent. where am I going wrong?

• Age: 28
• Location: 

  Leeds

• Posted: 01/09/2009 00:12

Hiya,

I'm 28 years old, Leeds born and bred, got a good figure, brunette, intelligent, 5'7", I dress well (not sl*tty - sexy in a good way!), I've got a good sense of humour, I love sport (season ticket at Elland Road, enjoy the rugby & cricket too), I'm independent, perfectly capable of doing my own DIY, got my own place, good job, flirty, enjoy a bit of banter (usually about why Leeds is infinitely better than anywhere else in the world) and I think i'm fairly down to earth. The problem is I don't have the confidence to ask a guy out, or even go up to one I fancy. But the only men who ever come up to me are the real idiots - you know the type, the pretentious arseholes with straightened hair, a neck scarf and "ornamental" glasses. Or the ones who think you'll be impressed by go faster stripes and blacked out windows. Or those who think groping you is a form of introduction.

So the question is - where am I going wrong? Why won't the nice normal guys come talk to me? Am I going to the wrong places? Where do all the men in their late 20's / early 30's spend their time?

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