Decent Christian lady, seeking decent soft-natured Christian gentleman

• Age: 27
• Location: 

  Leeds

• Posted: 06/11/2009 17:05

Hello lovely men out there,

I have reached a point in my life where I’m ready to let that special someone into my life. I guess I have been ready for a while now, but unfortunately, I’ve always ended up with the wrong people and have got myself hurt and my heart broken. Not anymore, because I know what exactly it is I want now. Before I talk about what it is i want in and from my man, it is only fair that I unveil myself and present who I am and what I will bring to the table.

About me:

I am an independent 27 year old lady. I’m an educated, intelligent, black voluptuous young woman, 5”4, size 12 and I live in West Yorkshire - Leeds to be specific and I’m a Christian. I enjoy the simplest things in life the most (and can also be sophisticated when need be). I have a good sense of humour and I’m easily amused. I love to smile and always like to have a laugh. I’m a very warm, giving, caring person and I am also selfless (sad to say, this has been taken advantage of countless times, but it’s just who I am). I’m a deeply loving and caring person and I’m a very romantic and affectionate. I’ve also been described as beautiful, loyal, generous honest, trustworthy and hardworking and a true friend. I enjoy cooking, spending time in the park, listening to music, watching movies, photography, travelling and helping others.

What I’m looking for:

I want a man who is a Christian and I’m not willing to compromise on that. I’m looking for an understanding, open minded, educated and intelligent man between 28 and 37 years. My man has to be gentle and soft natured/tempered, but not a push-over. He has to be honest, generous, trustworthy, romantic, affectionate, warm, kind and caring. Warmth is very important to me as I enjoy a lot of banter and goofing about; and to achieve this, I want a man who will become my best friend. I want to be married to my best friend, so this man should be a good listener - someone I can talk to about anything, without fear of him judging me - someone I can talk to about the seemingly littlest, irrelevant and insignificant things and equally, the most significant and important things. I want a man I can share my everything with - my life, my love, my heart - all of me. I want a man who is hardworking and comfortable financially. I’m not a gold digger. I’ve got my own, but this time around, I’m not looking for a man who is ‘struggling’. My man should be the kind who is clean and looks after himself. A social/occasional drinker is fine, definitely a non smoker and he has to be between slim and medium built. I don’t care if you are black or white, either is fine. Please, I don’t want a man who is divorced or still married. I want a perfectly single gentleman with no baggage, and I’m particular about this due to past experiences.


The above may seem like a tall list, but look at it carefully and I’m not asking for much at all. All I’m asking for is a decent Christian man who knows how to treat a good woman right. I’m the kind of woman who knows how to treat her man and look after him and gives her all to her man and supports him through thick and thin. My man is like my big baby and the kisses and cuddles are endless. When my man is happy I’m happy too. I want a man who knows how to respect, cherish, value and appreciate a good woman when he finds one. Hopefully, we can build something beautiful and solid, get married and have beautiful children. I know there is such a man out there; it’s just about finding you. You must be living in the UK, but Leeds will be perfect. Please note how detailed my ad is, so please don’t send me two lines in text language. Tell me about yourself.Thank you.

Do keep in touch.
Best regards.

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